James 3, Think Before You Speak

 

James 3, Think Before You Speak

James compares the damage the tongue can do to a raging fire. People dare not be careless in what they say, thinking they can apologize later, because hurtful words cause deep wounds and lasting scars. A few words spoken in anger can destroy a relationship that took years to build. Before speaking, we would do well to picture our tongues as sparks that can start a destructive fire and cause irreversible damage. Kind words can build up the spirit and strengthen the bonds of friendship and love. The tongue may be small, but it can cause great harm or do good. Which it does is up to us.

Gossip is idle talk or rumors about the private affairs of others. Seldom is gossip helpful and uplifting; rather, it usually centers around less-than positive information or rumors. Even if what is being spread is true, the person passing the information along usually has less-than positive motives. The Bible says that a “whisperer separates the best of friends, reveals secrets, and causes strife.” (Proverbs 16:28; 20:19, 26:20). The gossip’s words, like a spark on dry timber, can create a firestorm that destroys friendships, relationships, and reputations.

Christians can use their time and words more wisely than by listening to or spreading rumors and half-truths. When the local gossip calls to talk, we can let the person know, clearly and finally, that we will not listen. When we’re talking about other people, we should pass our words through an inner filter of truthfulness, kindness, and love. We ought to train ourselves to not listen to or pass along gossip, for the consequences are far too hurtful to others.

 

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